What I’m Wearing to BritMums Live

I’m going to be spending this coming weekend down in London for the BritMums Live Event. This time last year, I had only just started my blog and had no idea what all the excitement was all about. This year I’m one of 500 parent bloggers lucky enough to be going there myself.

Thankfully, I will be spending the weekend with fellow blogger Karen, who blogs at 365 Pearls of Wisdom. This lovely lady is someone I met online and who I try to stay in touch with whenever time permits. We have spoken on the phone a couple of times, but have never met in person… I don’t know anyone else!

I’m not really sure what to expect and I must admit I’m quite nervous, but thankfully I class myself as quite an outgoing, confident person who can talk the hind leg off a donkey… Nevertheless, I know that Karen will be there to take the pressure off if I feel lost or out of my depth, and me for her too. It’s nice knowing we both have back up and someone to fall back on if it all gets a bit daunting.

There are plenty of other bloggers who I am really looking forward to meeting in person too, people who have helped me over the last year and whom I haven’t had the time to get to know properly. It will be nice to meet them all and put names to faces. I’m also looking forward to leaning more and hearing all about how others have made it, and how to perfect the more technical aspects of blogging.

I have bought myself two new outfits for the occasion; as I wasn’t really sure what to wear! I have decided upon a dress with leggings for the Friday, which I can change to tights in the evening for the party and awards ceremony! Then black skinny jeans and a polka dot shirt for the Saturday. I will wear my red wedges, but have also packed a nice pair of flip-flops that will fit in my bag, (just in case my feet get achy). I have even bought myself a new notebook and pen, so I can take notes in style.

Being a single mother, I don’t tend to treat myself to luxuries like this very often, even if they are only Primani specials. I also don’t get to go out much these days and a glass of wine on an empty stomach could possibly tip me over the edge. In fact, I’m more interested to see how 500 mummy bloggers react when let loose for a weekend away in London… With no children to look after!

Surely this is going to be a recipe for drunkenness?… Therefore, I think my biggest dilemma of the weekend could actually be not what I’m going to wear… BUT, if I have a child free weekend away; should I let my hair down and enjoy it to its full potential? Or, do I stick to being sensible mummy, for risk of showing myself up in front of 500 people I have never met before?

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Carmarthen Bay Holiday Park

Last week we had our week away in Wales. It was a sun deal, which is something I have never done before, but I’ve always heard good reports from others who do it every year! I chose Wales because it was somewhere we went a couple of times when I was a kid, and I always remember the beautiful scenery and endless beaches.

Unfortunately, our trip did not go to plan as two miles before reaching Carmarthen Bay Holiday Park our car broke down and was not to be seen again until three days later, when we cut our losses and headed home on the back of an RAC breakdown truck!

That is another story and I will now try to give you a NONE biased (car broke down, didn’t stop raining = crap holiday) review of our beautifully picturesque caravan park…

The Park

The park itself is in the middle of nowhere and a good 3 miles drive from the nearest town of Kidwelly. To reach it you have to drive down a single-track road where you will find it nestled right on the beach of Carmarthen Bay. Although it is technically on the estuary, it is the mouth of the estuary and you can see out into the open sea.

I had read reviews previously, that stated the beach was just an expanse of mud when the sea went out, but this was not true! My girls played quite happily with their buckets and spades on there and we always walked via the beach when coming to and from the entertainment centre (weather depending of course). It has plenty of shells and crabs for kids to find and a pebbly bit too, however, it is no good for swimming or paddling as the tide is strong and comes in very quickly.

The only downside we could find to the actual park is it is set alongside the main South Wales train line. This did break the silence of the beautiful Welsh countryside as trains passed approximately every 30 minutes, even throughout the night! Therefore, my advice is, if you are a light sleeper pack your ear plugs!

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Entertainment

The entertainment in general was good! However, as we were car less and site bound for 4 days, we found there was not enough to do for the kids in the daytime. The kids club didn’t have its own room and was run from the entertainment hall, which meant no toys to play with and only games and colouring on offer. This is the first site I have been on that doesn’t cater too well for little ones, I personally don’t class half an hour (9.30-10am) in a morning sufficient for a holiday park kids club, that advertises itself as a family site!

However, the entertainment staff were all fantastic and very helpful when they realised we were car less. They found crayons, made hats for the girl to colour in, and always asked how we were and whether we had our car back yet. The evening entertainment was much better organised and we ended up staying quite late most evenings.

You could meet the Characters Sparky, Sparkle and Narkey at 6.15pm every evening where they would have photographs with the kids. Then they had kids Madness and Mayhem between 6.45 and 8.15 most nights with the option to carry on dancing after that too.

The soft play centre was the best I have seen at a caravan park; it filled a whole room instead of looking like an afterthought stuck on the end of somewhere else. Although I’m not sure about its cleanliness! Like the rest of the park, it looked a bit tired and I really disliked the fact that the guy who run it was extremely rude and every 10 minutes stood smoking in the doorway. Bearing in mind it was a kids area, it really STANK of smoke… To the point, it made my throat sore!

The pool was lovely, although quite cold, and the hot tub was not hot but the same temperature as the pool! The lifeguards did a good job and let little ones go down the flume on an adult’s knee, which the girls loved. I would however give the hot tub a miss as it has a very shape edge where the tiles had come away, another thing that was in obvious need of updating.

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Caravan

We had a bog standard Bronze caravan, which we were told would only be two bedrooms. However, when we arrived we were pleasantly surprised to have been given a three bed roomed one. This always works better because its always my mum that comes with us, so it means we have a room each.

It was nice and clean inside, had plenty of hot water! The only problem was the fact it rained so much everything ended up damp and we couldn’t get things like towels dry. Even the toilet paper was damp by the time we left, but I guess that’s what you get if you holiday in rainy Wales!

Restaurant

This place was our saviour! We spent a hell of a lot of time in here as we couldn’t leave the site and hadn’t done a shop before we arrived. We ate every meal here and I can safely say it is well priced and the food it very tasty. Don’t get me wrong, it’s not Michelin 5 star quality, but its good wholesome food that wasn’t terribly over priced like a lot of sites.

The traditional breakfasts were lovely and set us up for the day, and then we would just have a meal at night with a bottle of wine which cost under £50 for four of us. The restaurant looks out over the estuary and I imagine if you have nice weather, it would be a very pleasant place to spend the evening!

The only negative was, when after eating there every day and night; we decided we would give the girls a slice of toast to tide them over before the breakdown truck came to take us home. We asked at the bar and were refused because the chef said breakfast was over! Seriously?! How hard is it to stick two slices of toast in a toaster??? This did leave a bit of a bad taste in our mouths after all we had spent in there over the week.

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Overall Review

I imagine this would be an amazing place to stay if the weather is good. We loved being right on the beach and the staff were all very friendly and helpful, especially Nathan the maintenance man. He was not afraid to get his head under my bonnet and call the local garage for me. Every time I saw him, he always asked what stage we were at and if there was anything else he could do.

All the entertainment staff were also fantastic and I couldn’t fault their enthusiasm, especially as they work such long hours! My only overall criticism would be how tired everything looks, especially the pool and the “stinky” soft play centre.

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Jump Up and Join In

Before our holiday last week, we had been sent some books to review written by the Cbeebies Pop Shop presenters Carrie and David. I thought it would be an interesting opportunity as they both have such a high profile in the music industry. Working on shows like Pop Idol and vocal coaching with some of the industry’s most famous names, I was certain that if anyone can teach my girls the basics of music, they could!

We certainly were not disappointed when the books dropped onto our doormat. They are bright and colourful and the audio CD’s that come with the books keep the children engaged and entertained. The books called Lions Speedy Sauce and Elephants Birthday Bells, involve the children by encouraging them to copy the different sounds and rhymes and therefore teaching them the basics of learning music.

The books are aimed at 3-7 year olds and are great for any young family members who enjoy a sing along. However, the stories in them are very short compared to the music sections, which deem it a book only to be listened to with the attached CD. I did make the mistake on the first night of trying to read them as bedtime stories, of which it is nigh on impossible.

We also had problems listening to the CD’s tracks in sequence. We do not own a CD player at home and listen to most things via our laptops or ipod. I’m not sure if this was the reason, but our CD’s started on track one then jumped straight to track 4 missing the story out altogether. I had to manually override the tracks to overcome this; which meant I had to sit with the laptop next to me to make sure it was done in time for the next chapter.

Overall, these books are a great way to teach children the basics of music. They are bright and fun with lovely short stories, which the girls loved. There are six different “Jump up and Join In” titles to collect each priced at £6.99, all with audio CD’s attached for your children to enjoy and learn a different aspect of music.

I received a copy of each of the books mentioned in my review. All opinions are my own!

A Very Nice Man

This week we are in Wales! I have been keeping an eye on the weather reports, as last week was so beautiful and this week was also looking very promising! However, it was not meant to be…

The rain gods of Wales have thrust their worst upon us and we have woken to gusty winds and torrential rain! The forecast for the week doesn’t look like its getting any better either, and now instead of packing the buckets and spades I wish I had packed the wellies and waterproofs!

However, as we sat in a traffic jam on the M4 for an hour yesterday afternoon the sun came out, the sky turned blue and it was perfect weather for… The car to overheat! Yes, we were two miles away from our campsite in Carmarthen bay when I lost all power and the water started bubbling like a frenzied hot tub.

Luckily I’m in the RAC and the “very nice man” came to our rescue and helped us to our campsite. In fact not only did he help us to our site, he also helped find our caravan as I got helplessly lost, and was so amiable he would possibly have helped with the unpacking had I have asked!

Now it looks like the weather/rain is set to last and I will have a mission to get my car to the nearest garage where I will receive a massive bill for my efforts! “Holiday” may not quite be how I remember this break and I think nightmare may be more exact :-(

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